tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6887749767105603897.post8377374484159005871..comments2023-05-22T08:41:37.327-07:00Comments on BlAsian Exchanges, a novel: Rept. on Love Without Boundary Nov 3 '07 NYC: BW dating outside the boxnobhillwriterhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02711145952778866036noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6887749767105603897.post-79634286950465152042008-01-31T20:31:00.000-08:002008-01-31T20:31:00.000-08:00I don't recall anything being said about that at a...I don't recall anything being said about that at all and I certainly did not. In fact, my recollection was I said that since my undergraduate college years - starting when I was influenced by Freda Payne and Angela Davis - I have always been attracted to Black women because of their intellectual, political, cultural and emotional intelligence.nobhillwriterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02711145952778866036noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6887749767105603897.post-72835366321006901732008-01-30T01:36:00.000-08:002008-01-30T01:36:00.000-08:00Sam, was there anything said on the panel about As...Sam, was there anything said on the panel about Asian men (most specifically East Asians, but sometimes South Asians as well)-- other than yourself, clearly -- NOT being willing to date Black women/women of African descent b/c people of that descent are frequently perceived in Asian culture as being the "lowest of the low"?<BR/><BR/>And that where Asians were willing for their sons to date out, that their preferences in order would be other Asian women (some historical intra-Asian enmity notwithstanding), then Caucasian women, then Indian and/or Arab women -- basically, anyone other than Black women?<BR/><BR/>Was anyone willing to tackle that topic at all? And if so, what was said?Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07507653779209875328noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6887749767105603897.post-48793632305670182512008-01-11T19:32:00.000-08:002008-01-11T19:32:00.000-08:00neither the Black woman nor the Asian guy want to ...neither the Black woman nor the Asian guy want to date white as much as they have in the past and each is discovering the importance of dating a person of color instead of following society's traditional notions of white beauty being the ideal attraction for people of color.<BR/><BR/>--------------<BR/><BR/>Couldnt have said it better myself!IeshaDressesCutehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02355332396355992696noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6887749767105603897.post-52535882981570759552007-12-04T19:48:00.000-08:002007-12-04T19:48:00.000-08:00To Halima & Deborah:Thank you for your comments. T...To Halima & Deborah:<BR/><BR/>Thank you for your comments. Thanks Halima for adding me to your link.<BR/><BR/>Deborah: in answer to your first question, I think there is an increase because neither the Black woman nor the Asian guy want to date white as much as they have in the past and each is discovering the importance of dating a person of color instead of following society's traditional notions of white beauty being the ideal attraction for people of color. I think this phenomenon is prevalent beyond the U.S. in countries such as those in the Caribbean and Africa.nobhillwriterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02711145952778866036noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6887749767105603897.post-72296096970820897322007-11-30T14:21:00.000-08:002007-11-30T14:21:00.000-08:00Hello Sam, I've found your blog via Halima's site(...Hello Sam, I've found your blog via Halima's site(Bw's IR Circle) so a big thanks to her and a bigger thanks to you for sharing your thoughts with us. I did want to comment on your description of your involvement in AA culture and the resulting proximity to AA women. Your words have cemented my own personal theory that proximity plays a major role in connecting to others outside one's own social circle. Also, your understanding of the myriad nuances of AA culture can best be understood when one can be an active participant. A few questions for you:<BR/>Why do you think there is an increase in AM/BW relationships? And do you think this phenomenon is exclusive to the U.S.? Thans and I'll keep reading. <BR/>Peace<BR/>MystereDancerUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10534721038389499720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6887749767105603897.post-12601974394906289702007-11-30T02:48:00.000-08:002007-11-30T02:48:00.000-08:00Hello there My name is Halima and I am an author. ...Hello there My name is Halima and I am an author. My blog is BW's IR Circle. I have added you to my Links (if this is ok with you).<BR/><BR/>will be droping by from time to time!<BR/><BR/><A HREF="http://www.dateawhiteguybook.com/order.htm#ebook" REL="nofollow">IR Dating E-Book</A>Halimahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13400009793511308799noreply@blogger.com